Turkey’s gender inequality is, in my opinion, still treated as something normal in everyday life, and that’s exactly where the real problem begins. Most people either don’t notice it or, even if they do, they just accept it by saying “that’s how it is.” However, this issue doesn’t only affect women; it actually impacts the overall balance and fairness of society.
What stands out to me the most is that this inequality starts at a very early age. Girls are often taught to be calmer and more controlled, while boys are given more freedom. When a boy cries, people say “boys don’t cry,” but when a girl is emotional, it is seen as normal. Over time, these patterns shape people’s personalities and influence their life choices. In other words, many of the inequalities we see in adulthood actually begin in childhood.
Although it may seem like there is equality in education, this is not the case everywhere. In some regions, girls are still more likely than boys to drop out of school at an earlier age. This makes it harder for them to become economically independent in the future. I believe that education and financial independence are the most important factors for a woman to stand on her own feet.
A similar situation exists in working life. In Turkey, women’s participation in the workforce is significantly lower than men’s. But the issue is not just about numbers. Women who work often have to take on double responsibilities—both at work and at home. When a man works, it is seen as him fulfilling his duty, but when a woman works, she is still expected to handle all household responsibilities perfectly. I don’t find this fair at all. I believe that everyone living in a household should share responsibilities equally. This is not about “helping”; it is simply what should already be done.
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