{"id":6247,"date":"2021-02-25T16:10:30","date_gmt":"2021-02-25T14:10:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/?p=6247"},"modified":"2021-02-25T16:21:51","modified_gmt":"2021-02-25T14:21:51","slug":"listening-is-another-form-of-respect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/ot\/listening-is-another-form-of-respect\/","title":{"rendered":"Listening is another form of respect"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Most individuals speak at a rate of 2.5 words per second, often in a noisy atmosphere with less than crisp diction. We are usually unaware how unclear our communication can be. The most effective element in good communication is listening.&nbsp; Listening is spry in the sense that it\u2019s an active process that requires us to listen and think about what others are saying to us at the same time and listener tries to understand what the other individual is thinking or feeling and attempting to see things from the speaker\u2019s perspective. Imagine that you are talking to your colleague or family member and you can tell that they aren\u2019t listening to you.&nbsp; Maybe they seem inattentive, their body language suggests they are bored or they begin to look at their phone while you are talking.&nbsp; Has this ever happened to you? If so, you probably remember feeling disappointed, sad or angry that the other person wasn\u2019t listening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/ot\/columnwriter\/\">Be Our InTraders\u2019 Author for Free of Registration to InTraders\u2019 Conferences<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Listening to others when they speak is a sign of respect and a skill\nthat will lead to deeper and better relationships.&nbsp; You\u2019ll also probably\nlearn a lot more about your friends and your environment by actively listening\nto others. Being an active listener means paying close attention to others,\nincluding to non-verbal cues, restraint judgement and having a willingness to\nunderstand another\u2019s perspective. Emotion expressed non-verbally can be more\ntelling than the words people speak. Focus on tone of voice, pace of speech,\nfacial expressions and gestures. Listen to hear the meaning behind what\u2019s being\nsaid. It helps you to summarize what you\u2019re hearing and reflect the feelings\nexpressed. When giving feedback, make it seem like it\u2019s coming from an ally\nrather than an adversary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Listening with full attention means you are communicating respect. By offering speakers respect, you are likely to gain theirs in return. By being respectful while someone is speaking demonstrates that you value people by giving them your full attention. Knowing more about people is helpful in your professional life as well as personal life. Imagine the benefits when you understand your colleagues, manager, customers, partner, friends and family members better.\u00a0Careful listening helps you clearly understand what people are trying to say and therefore assists to avoid some of the confusion, misunderstandings and potential conflicts that are common in conversations. Careful listening offers an opportunity to really understand.\u00a0 People want to do business with people they like. You may also find that as you listen to people more,\u00a0youfind more in common, really understand their views and actually, you like\u00a0them\u00a0more. Listening creates a feeling of respect, connection and goodwill in personal and professional relationships. Improve your relationships by listening non-judgmentally to what others have to say. The more you listen without judgment, the more freedom speakers have to find their own solutions to problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201cMost people do not listen with the intent\nto understand; they listen with the intent to reply.\u201d &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Covey<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/7th-Intraders-732x1024-732x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6231\" \/><figcaption><a href=\"http:\/\/www.intraders.org\">http:\/\/www.intraders.org<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most individuals speak at a rate of 2.5 words per second, often in a noisy atmosphere with less<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2675,"featured_media":2841,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[597,345],"yst_prominent_words":[5119,5098,5117,1195,1833,2551,5116,5122,5118,5114,5120,5115,921,5121,3363,2637,2469,5123,3144,1563],"class_list":["post-6247","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ot","tag-hina-zahoor","tag-pakistan"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6247","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6247"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6247\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6250,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6247\/revisions\/6250"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2841"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6247"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6247"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6247"},{"taxonomy":"yst_prominent_words","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/yst_prominent_words?post=6247"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}