{"id":7244,"date":"2025-03-22T19:08:12","date_gmt":"2025-03-22T17:08:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/?p=7244"},"modified":"2025-03-22T19:08:13","modified_gmt":"2025-03-22T17:08:13","slug":"emotional-blindness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/ot\/emotional-blindness\/","title":{"rendered":"Emotional Blindness"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A type of disease clinically.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I noticed it while searching the internet after using antidepressants.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I calmed down a lot after starting the medication. I realized that I started to feel more comfortable expressing myself. My anxiety decreased. I can&#8217;t even think about what I&#8217;m anxious about now. I used to calculate every possibility in detail and get a reaction, but now it doesn&#8217;t matter who I&#8217;ve hurt or offended. It&#8217;s like I&#8217;ve become selfish.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can&#8217;t please everyone, neither in business nor in private life. Sometimes people don&#8217;t want to be offended, they think it would be rude and take it easy. We say, &#8220;Will someone be offended if I say this?&#8221; We say, &#8220;If I say this, they&#8217;ll be upset.&#8221; There&#8217;s no need. Those who are offended can be offended.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&#8217;t think all of this is disrespect. It&#8217;s not about lack of conscience either. This situation can&#8217;t be explained with respect and conscience. This situation is about how much more foolishly we sacrifice ourselves for people who don&#8217;t deserve us. Let&#8217;s just think about ourselves for ourselves. It&#8217;s like mathematics, it&#8217;s more correct to be like mathematics than like an accountant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I try to look at myself from the outside, the point I&#8217;ve reached is like a logical and soulless state. Still, there are people I respect and am happy to have around me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Those who don&#8217;t contribute positively to my life, leave them out of my life. Not because I think I&#8217;m shit, but because they believe in me, unnecessary efforts to please, this is not happiness. Those who don&#8217;t like spending time with me, leave them out of my life. If someone breaks, they will break, those who think about me should stay with me\u2026.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These are not my thoughts, but this is how I feel after the medication. Let&#8217;s see what happens in time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At least I can take care not to break the hearts of the rare people I respect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, I was just starting to love life. Now I don&#8217;t even know if I love life or not. just living.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A type of disease clinically. I noticed it while searching the internet after using antidepressants. I calmed down<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[2379,5124,6249,6258],"yst_prominent_words":[1853,3215,1849,1934,2374,1311,5654,921,2637,2066,1378],"class_list":["post-7244","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ot","tag-blog","tag-blogger","tag-intraders-blog","tag-kursat-capraz-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7244","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7244"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7244\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7245,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7244\/revisions\/7245"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7244"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7244"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7244"},{"taxonomy":"yst_prominent_words","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.intraders.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/yst_prominent_words?post=7244"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}